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The REAL Mistress Mindy is NOT on Backpage

by Mistress Mindy· June 17, 2017· in Uncategorized· 2 comments
Hello my lovelies, I am just getting ready for a night out, but I wanted to make something clear first because I’m not thrilled right now. Apparently somebody in Toronto has been using the name Mistress Mindy on Backpage. I’ve been asked about it a few times, so I want to clarify right here on my blog – that is NOT me. A few important differences to note: – She is an escort. I am a Dominatrix. My interactions with clients do not involve sexual favours. – She is in her 40’s and old enough to be my mother. – The phone number she posts from is apparently used in police stings. I have added some of her pictures below just in case she is claiming to be me. Any posts with the pictures below are NOT me. So, to summarize – there is only one Mistress Mindy, and you are currently reading her blog. The only way I allow new clients to contact me is through my website, TorontoDomme.com. I will never pay for third party website ads or post a phone number. Enjoy the rest of the weekend and stay tuned on my blog and/or social media as I’ll […]
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Not just a Dominatrix – a Toronto Motivatrix!

by Mistress Mindy· May 28, 2017· in Coaching, Corporal Punishment, Life Coaching, Motivation, Online Domination, Strap, Toys· 2 comments
Hi again lovelies! I thought I’d dedicate this blog to a service that is surprisingly popular with my subs – and that is Dominatrix Lifestyle Coaching! Whether you need help staying on track with homework, getting your ass to the gym, watching what you eat, keeping your house clean, quitting smoking, or anything else, I have a very particular brand of motivation that can bring you in line quite quickly. I’ll give you an example to show you what I mean. I have been helping a number of teachers who are just beginning their careers. The transition from student to teacher can be very difficult for them. Some of them have slipped into the habit of arriving at classes unprepared or without lesson plans, taking far too long to grade and hand back assignments, throwing on movies in class instead of teaching a lesson, using their phone inappropriately during class, and basically acting unprofessionally towards the staff, parents, and students. Strict supervision and after class accountability has been shown to improve these issues and their overall productivity at work and in their personal lives. You see, some of you will remember a time when teachers had more authority in the […]
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Toronto Dominatrix – Movin’ On Up!

by Mistress Mindy· May 24, 2017· in Dungeon, Golden Showers, Medical, Moving, Uncategorized· 0 comments
Hi guys!! First of all, I’d like to thank you for the enormously positive feedback on my last blog! From your comments I think it’s evident that my enjoyment of kink comes through pretty clearly in my writing, so I’m definitely going to endeavour to keep this blog updated at least once weekly, possibly more if I’m playing more! For this week’s blog, I wanted to make a bit of an announcement. Those of you who have visited me know that I have been using my basement as a makeshift play space for quite a while. There are some drawbacks to this – due to constant flooding and structural issues, I wasn’t able to make the aesthetic changes I would have like to make to improve the atmosphere and provide a true kinky ambience. Well, that’s no longer an issue! As of July 1st, I’m moving to a new space which I can customize to my perverted heart’s desire! With gleaming hardwood, a kitchen, and two separate, large playrooms, this space will allow for a lot more fun and flexibility. I’m setting up a “softcore” and “hardcore” space. One will be more muted, with cozy furniture, equipment for more regular […]
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Needle Play – Sometimes a Toronto Dominatrix Needs to Get to the Point

by Mistress Mindy· May 17, 2017· in Cock and Ball Torture, Needle Play· 2 comments tags: Cock and Ball Torture, Needle Play
Hello kinky friends! I thought I’d post a much overdue update! After some prolonged and much needed vacation time, I’m back in the saddle (so to speak) and enjoying play again! Feel free to reach out to schedule a session. If you’ve contacted me in the past few months and haven’t received a response, my sincerest apologies – I’d be happy to hear from you again and set up a time to meet and play! Today’s blog focuses on one of my true passions. It’s one I understand is rarely offered by pro Dommes, and similarly not often requested by subs – but I have finally found a devoted toy who is willing to endure my more sadistic treatment, purely for the pleasure of seeing me happy! Not a born masochist, this sub has been dutifully pushing his limits since meeting me last year, and has found himself willing and eager to go above and beyond to prove his devotion to his Goddess. I started out slow, putting on some soft music, lighting some candles, and stripping him down slowly. Sometimes I am cold and clinical when I’m doing needle play, but as this was his first time, I wanted […]
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This Dominatrix Always Loves New Toys

by Mistress Mindy· December 04, 2016· in Cock and Ball Torture, Corporal Punishment, Forced Feminization, Golden Showers, Medical, Mummification, Shopping, Spanking, Strap-On, Tease, Torture, Toys· 0 comments tags: new, shopping, tease, torture, toys
Hello kinky friends! I’ve taken some time off and used it to stock up on kinky supplies and toys to tease and torment my lovely subs. I have a fun new assortment of gags, nipple clamps, anal plugs, beads, sounds, and more with which to threaten and torture you. I’ll be posting pictures and videos in the coming weeks so that you can fantasize about exactly what I’ll do to you when you visit my dungeon. I’m booking now for the New year, so reach out today and set up a time to live out your deepest desires. I can’t wait to meet you!
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I’m back!

by Mistress Mindy· March 10, 2016· in Uncategorized· 0 comments
Hello everyone! It’s been a while since I’ve updated the blog, but I wanted to pop in and let you know I’ve had some email mishaps recently – if you’ve sent an email in the past two weeks and haven’t recieved a response, please resend it! I know for a fact some new emails went missing, and I’d love to hear from you again and take the time to respond to your questions and requests for sessions. I’m also thrilled to let you know that I’ve got tons of new content coming along in the next few weeks, so stay tuned! Plenty more fantasies, pics, and vids will be uploaded, as well as the usual blog posts about the kinky fun I have with all my subs! If there’s anything in particular you’d like to see or hear, I’m definitely open to suggestions as well. Looking forward to interacting with you all again! xoxoxo Mindy
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Mistress Mindy is a Toronto Dominatrix who can turn up the heat

by Mistress Mindy· July 21, 2015· in Cock and Ball Torture, Temperature Play· 1 comments tags: cold, heat, Pain, temperature play, torture
This Toronto Dominatrix loves torturing captive subs and slaves with temperature play. There are many ways to play with the sensation of temperature torture – both ice and molten wax are fun extremes with which to experiment. In my experience, most subs are familiar with ice play, and quite a few have heard of wax play. It’s very different once you’ve been at the mercy of a sadistic Domme who is committed to using differing temperatures to titillate, torment, tease, and test a sub’s vulnerable, exposed and bound body. I’d like to share with you a picture I took during a recent session. This sub was originally very hesitant about heat play, but decided that he trusted me enough to move forward, push his limits, and enjoy the sensations that extreme temperature can bring. Now wax play is one of his very favourite pursuits, and he absolutely loves leaving himself completely at my mercy. As much as I enjoy using ice and wax individually, I find that the combination makes for an exceptionally erotic experience. The contrast is deeply stimulating, and I look forward to introducing curious new subs to the wonders of temperature play.
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Enjoy Financial Domination from a Professional Toronto Dominatrix – not a wallet rapist

by Mistress Mindy· June 12, 2015· in Financial Domination, Online Domination· 2 comments tags: Financial, FinDom, Online
This is an interesting side of kink I haven’t really discussed on the blog, and yet I’ve gotten many inquiries about it. There is a large portion of the BDSM community who absolutely loathe so-called “Fin Dommes” (financial Dommes). There are also quite a few profiles that exist solely to exploit the kink scene for financial gain. These two facts make financial domination a very tricky subject to address – and I’d imagine even tricker to navigate for those who have a legitimate fetish for it. Believe me, they do exist! There are several different fantasies that seem to be popular in the financial Domination scene. The most common fetish is probably blackmail. I get a LOT of requests for this particular kink. People interested in financial blackmail want to be forced to hand over their online banking details, and have a Domme threaten to expose and humiliate them either personally or professionally if they don’t hand over the information and money the Domme demands. A popular form of financial blackmail occurs from a distance – using tools like TeamViewer, a Domme can remotely access a sub’s computer and can gain access to sensitive information. This is dangerous unless you […]
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If you can’t visit a Toronto Dominatrix, the next best thing is Online Domination

by Mistress Mindy· May 16, 2015· in Cock and Ball Torture, Forced Feminization, Online Domination, Spanking· 2 comments tags: CBT, Kinky, online domination, Skype
The other day I was looking through my Google Analytics, and I found that I’m receiving a lot of visitors from around the world. Out of 196 countries, I’ve received visitors from 138 countries. I must say, this is very flattering! So first of all, thank you to everyone who visits my site, whether you’re around the corner or around the globe. Sadly, I can only do in-person sessions with those who travel to me, or those who pay my travel costs to come to them. I’ve received countless emails along the lines of “I can’t come to Toronto to see you, and I can’t afford to bring you here, and there are no great dommes where I live”, followed by expressions of sadness and frustration. Luckily, thanks to high speed internet providers, built in cameras in laptops and phones, and innovations in general, Online Domination is a service I am able and happy to provide! How does online domination work, you ask? It’s simple – we engage in a video chat, and for the duration of the session, you follow my instructions as though we were together in person. The only difference is, instead of me doing things, I’m ordering […]
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Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy presents The Sounding… of Music

by Mistress Mindy· April 21, 2015· in Cock and Ball Torture, Medical, Sounding· 1 comments tags: CBT, Medical, Sounding, Urethra
Posted by: Mistress Mindy I thought I’d talk about an activity that I offer that seems a bit edgy to some in the scene. It’s called sounding (a form of CBT). Basically, it involves inserting rods of various sizes into the urethra. The sounds are typically made from surgical grade steel, but there are variations that vibrate or deliver electric shocks internally. Sounding is best left to those with experience as the urethra can become damaged if proper technique is not used. That being said, with the proper Domme, sounding can provide an intense sensation unlike anything else. If you’re looking for something that’s a little out there, I recommend trying it out! Under proper supervision (and obviously with the proper equipment and hygiene) you might discover a new obsession! This picture was taken during a sounding session with one of my more experienced clients. He’s had his urethra gradually stretched over the years, and can now take quite a large sound with no problem. In fact, we’ve ordered a set with larger sounds so we can continue to stretch him out! I incorporated a medical theme into this session, and told him that Dr. Mindy was going to continue […]
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