Hello kinky people! I hope everyone who attended the Bottomless Golden event had a fantastic time! We had a truly memorable night and I look forward to many more collaborative events with gorgeous Dommes! If you haven’t already, be sure to sign up for my mailing list, so that you can keep up on all the latest Multi-Domme events and new releases from me! So – Tone. Tenor. Vibe. Mood. Feel. We can call it a lot of different things, but today I want to talk about the tone of a scene, identify some of the common ones in my practice, and discuss negotiating with your Dom/me. I’ll include specific examples so hopefully you can see what I mean, but as always if you have any questions, shoot me an email or leave a comment! To address tone, I think it’s wise to first address theme. I suggest you choose a theme if you have a particular fetish that you are primarily devoted to exploring, and if you would be disappointed if a mistress went off on a tangent with other kinks/subjects/fantasies. Themes can vary wildly, but for an example, choosing a medical theme will keep things med fet focused […]
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Hello Lovelies, I receive emails all the time from people asking about bondage. Every level – from ‘I’ve never been bound at all’ to ‘I need to be restrained, and not just a pair of handcuffs behind my back’ to ‘I barely want to be able to breathe’. Granted, the last one ventures into the extreme with mummification (which I LOVE), but we’ll save that for another day. I should also be clear that while I am familiar with Shibari (the magnificent art of intricate Japanese rope play), this blog will not deal with that. Bondage requires a lot of trust, whether you’re experimenting with a partner, or even with your sexy Toronto Domme! You are giving complete control to another person, so make sure you’re comfortable with the person you choose to explore with. Bondage is perfect for restraining a sub for a number of purposes, but I’ll focus on two. Pain – perhaps you deserve to be punished because you’re not applying yourself properly, or you’re a masochist who loves the feeling of a well-placed paddle; of course, human nature is to attempt to avoid pain. The right use of ropes and cuffs helps you receive that beating […]
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Posted by: Mistress Mindy I thought I’d talk about an activity that I offer that seems a bit edgy to some in the scene. It’s called sounding (a form of CBT). Basically, it involves inserting rods of various sizes into the urethra. The sounds are typically made from surgical grade steel, but there are variations that vibrate or deliver electric shocks internally. Sounding is best left to those with experience as the urethra can become damaged if proper technique is not used. That being said, with the proper Domme, sounding can provide an intense sensation unlike anything else. If you’re looking for something that’s a little out there, I recommend trying it out! Under proper supervision (and obviously with the proper equipment and hygiene) you might discover a new obsession! This picture was taken during a sounding session with one of my more experienced clients. He’s had his urethra gradually stretched over the years, and can now take quite a large sound with no problem. In fact, we’ve ordered a set with larger sounds so we can continue to stretch him out! I incorporated a medical theme into this session, and told him that Dr. Mindy was going to continue […]
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