Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Mindy - Frequently Asked Questions

Do you offer sex / explicit sexual favours?

No. I am a professional Dominatrix, not a prostitute.

When you say sex / explicit sexual favours, that means...?

It means you do not get to touch me in a sexual manner. My services do not include use of my mouth, hands or any other sexual body parts in the stimulation of clients' genitals for the purpose of achieving orgasm. However, to be clear, sessions I offer DO include Strap-On / Anal Play, CBT, Genital Manipulation / Medical Examination (with nitrile gloves), Prostate Play / Prostate Milking, Face-Sitting / Queening (not nude) and Genital Foot Play.

You used to have Instagram. Now you don't. What happened to your Instagram?

I originally got Instagram to post pictures here and there and keep things updated; unfortunately Instagram's guidelines prohibit anything "sexual", and my TWO attempts to maintain an account within their guidelines were flagged and taken down. Therefore it's simply not worth my effort. Simpler answer; if they don't want me, I don't want them. By all means, follow me on Twitter, and keep checking my gallery for updated pictures.

How much does a session cost? Sessions vary greatly in content and length.

Tribute for a session will be determined when I know exactly what you're looking for and have come up with a plan. For this reason, it's essential that you be as clear as possible about your desires up front.

Do you offer sessions for students for a reduced tribute?

Yes. And from what I've heard, I'm the only professional domme in the GTA who does. I understand that students have limited funds, and believe that everyone (of legal age) should be able to enjoy sessions with an experienced goddess. Students must be between 19 and 26 years of age. A valid student ID is required, along with regular ID to authenticate the age and identity of the client.

Can I book a session for today?

Because of my busy schedule and the virtual impossibility of the stars aligning for a same-day booking, the answer to that is no. Plus, when a sub is too eager and rushed, the session is never as enjoyable as it could be. Contact me in advance and give me at least a day's notice. Rest assured, I'm more than worth the wait.

I've seen your pictures online. How do I know it's really you?

My pictures are understandably popular on many corners of the internet. Only this site, and my profiles on Fetlife (under the name MissMindy and MissMindyNYC) and Collarspace (under the name MistressMindyTor), are affiliated with me. And of course my social media accounts, which are all linked at the top and bottom of my website. Anyone else who uses my pictures elsewhere is misrepresenting themselves. Obviously if I am booking sessions, I would be wasting my time if I were not actually real. If you have any concerns once you have booked and confirmed a session, I will verify my identity on Skype.

Where do your sessions take place?

My personal playspace has been perfected. It's a private, fun space where I host all of my sessions, complete with kinky furniture, a St. Andrews Cross and all the toys we need to have fun. That being said, I can and do travel within the GTA, though the onus is on the sub to cover my travel costs. I will also travel internationally, if we come to an agreement on travel and accommodation, which the sub will also cover.

How do I stop you if things become too intense or painful?

Before every session, we establish boundaries and safewords. Sessions are a safe place and full enjoyment is always the goal, not displeasure.

Do you only do the things you list on this website or do you do other stuff?

Just ask! It's always worth sending me a message with your interests listed – I am quite flexible and enjoy many different fun kinks.

Your proportions seem impossible - is your body... natural?

I am 100% real and natural.

Do you have something along the lines of doctor/patient confidentiality?

Absolutely. While there are no dominatrix oaths that I know of, I take pride in keeping everything confidential and not sharing details of sessions or clients with anyone. What happens in my dungeon stays in my dungeon.